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Humankind has always been in search of happiness, but many people have made the mistake of thinking they could find it either in material possessions, fame, or fortune.

Are you aware of what makes you happy? Could it be money? Could it be your spouse or your boyfriend/girlfriend? Could it be your best friend? Are all these choices wrong?

I will wager most of you said money? I will admit between being broke and having money that being broke finishes a bad second. Having a lot of money at your disposal relieves some of the stress in your life. Paying your bills like mortgage, car payments and household bills like food, phone, electric and heat is a relief.

Having a grand home is a fantastic feeling. This is what you look forward to all day long. A time to relax, unwind and enjoy in a soothing atmosphere. Our cars are a matter of concern too. One that runs very dependable and does not break ever two minutes. Especially on a deserted highway. That can sometimes be terrifying and very stressful..

What about your wife/husband? Are you happy when you are with them or just sometimes? Unfortunately, most married people grow apart and do not stay with each other. Spouses work and it opens up a new world for them. What about boyfriend/girlfriend? Bluebirds stay together longer than these relationships. Best friends? Today with the job changes and moving we grow apart.

If you are looking for the answer in the suggestion you will not find them. The secret is you and only you. It is nice to have a spouse, a new car, a great home, but these feelings are temporary at best. Upon arising in the morning look in the mirror and declare ” I will be happy today no matter what obstacles come my way. I know problems will come up today, but I will overcome them. Nothing will deter me from being happy.”

The first thing to do is to take complete responsibility for what happens in your life. This is the best way to eliminate the blame game. It is self deprecating and does not help. Today take responsibility to be happy.

To your committed success,

Want to find out more about emotions, then visit Cydne Buckley’s site on how to choose the best emotional well being for your needs.